You Know your friends and you trust your friends, your relationship and you are a happy person now. But picking friends and lovers is never easy. It’s like judging a book by it’s cover. Everyone gets what they desire in life and it just comes down at the right time. Let’s take social media for example – her pictures and posts go on and they’re filled with awesome content. For a guy everything they see on social media about a girls is rainbow and peaches. A guy deals with girls attitude and finds it difficult to recognize mean people.
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Here are 5 Psychological Ways To Recognize Mean People And Avoid Them.
1.Expect whats coming and reply strongly
Mean people know that they’re being mean and you should grow a pair and stand up for yourself. The next time you’re faced with a bully, respond in kind. For example, you should say, “Do you expect me to drive you there again?” instead of, “Is it okay if you find your own way there?” Also, instead of saying, “Yes, I’ll take care of it,” you should say, “You wanted to come to this store but were you seriously expecting me to pay for these?”
2.Minimize or cut off communication
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What do you do when you’ve been binge eating and drinking? You go on a detox, of course. Nothing gets rid of toxins better than a detox, and the same philosophy can be applied to the mean people in your life. Minimize or cut off communication in your bid to stop them from walking all over you. You’ll sleep so much better at night. Trust me.
3.They’re experts at manipulation
Let the meanies cast their spell over you, because before you know it, you’ll be second guessing yourself. The last thing you need is to feel bad about your life choices. They are experts at manipulation, and you need to realize that when you doubt yourself, they win.
4.Face-to-face situations
If you care for this mean person, then go ahead and try to salvage the relationship. The only way to do so is to be honest, in a gentle way. Stage an intervention, of sorts, and speak to them calmly. If you don’t do well in face-to-face situations, pen an email. There’s a chance they’ll be in denial and blame you for their misery, so also be prepared to lose them as a friend.
5.Gossip Mongers
Meanies take delight in pulling people down. All they want to do is talk about other people and nothing out of their mouths is good.
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Whether you are related to a meanie, are in a relationship with one, are friends with one, or simply know of one, it doesn’t matter. What matters is that you need to make a change for your own well being. You can choose to do one or all of the five steps listed above, but at the end of the day, remember to hope for the best and prepare for the worst.
