How to flirt with girls ? This question is probably among the mostly asked questions in the world. There are two ways to flirt with a girl, the right way and the wrong way. But whatever way you choose, the girl immediately knows you’re hitting on her and she knows you want to go out with her. So you’re going to have to hope that her first impression of you is a good one. Here are 5 tips on how to flirt with girls.
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1. The soft stare will do wonders
Since the eyes can generally convey a lot of different feelings, you should put them to use whenever you flirt with girls because girls are actually hardwired by their feelings. Ideally, you should stare at a girl deeply whenever you talk to her while maintaining a calm and relaxed expression on your face. Try your best to meet her gaze, and hold it. But don’t look like a creep. See elsewhere from time to time too! This will definitely turn her on. And it will not just make her feel more comfortable in your presence, but it will instantly make her feel closer to you, as well.
2. Never show desperation while flirting with a girl
Nothing turns girls off more than under-confident desperation. Don’t be apologetic for taking her time (girls hate that). Don’t ping her saying “hi”. Ping her saying, “Hi Reetika! How’re you doing?” In case she doesn’t reply the first time you ping her, never use the same opening line the next time. Start by something like, “Hey Reetika! The XYZ video you’d shared was hilarious. Where did you find it?” It shows you’re not talking to her because you’re desperate, but because you’ve got something real to say. You get the point.
3. Compliment her the right way
If she is looking beautiful or different just compliment her. Give her a compliment about her hair, perfume and dresses. You can always compliment a girl about her tee shirt or her perfume directly, but by getting personal with it, you’re creating a memory for her. The next time she uses that perfume, she’s going to remember what you said. And that’s the first step to paving your way into her heart. Saying “your skin is so soft… does it feel the same way all over?” or “nice tee shirt. I love the way it fits your body” may seem personal, but it also borders on creepy. Save these sexual compliments for later, when she wants to hear them.
4. Tease her every now and then
Humor is a magnet that attract most girls. So add humor in your conversations and more often tease her too. This will always work. If you can have a fun conversation with her, you’re already flirting! It’s as simple as that. But to push the friendly banter into dating grounds, you need to tease her and pull her leg now and then, when she slips or does something funny.
5. Play with dirty conversations
If you are applying these four line that means now you are eligible to to take this flirting to the next step. Don’t worry about crossing the line. Just go slowly and observe how she reacts to these talks. So, whenever you get some alone time or are speaking to her on the phone, learn to mix your conversations. Pass a few remarks or ask a few questions that border on personal space every now and then. Even if she tells you to shut it in jest, you’ll still be making a great impression.
And if you want to take this flirting to next step i.e. relationship, you must read reasons why you should confess it to her
And in the last I want to say that Just be yourself.