Dating is not everyone’s cup of tea. There are rules and there are failures too. Do you ever wonder what is tougher than being in a relationship? The rules. They can make or simply break a relationship. The biggest and one of the most common reasons why it is so hard to date someone or fall in love with someone is the fear of ‘promise’, that is, commitment. The “tags” can literally scare some people, while for others, the doubt of where the person stands in that relationship is also worrying. In the current times, modern dating has become quite puzzling and uncertain.
There are also couples who are not even willing to discuss the labels or the tags, others are having a tough time in understanding if that particular person is the right one for them!
Sometimes, dating can also do downhill in case your partner is not loyal to you. You need to make sure not to make these mistakes and live a happy love life.
1. Double dating
It is okay in case you are planning on inviting your date to the friend’s / family party. However, never to a double date. It’s simply a big NO NO. Whether it is a planned or a surprise, beware that double date is just another name for The Pandora’s box.
2. Forgetting the manners
One thing which never gets old is pulling the chair for your lady. Everyone likes to be treated in a special way. Make them feel special. This is an amazing option which aids in making someone feel special and over the clouds.
3. Expecting beyond reasonable
Well, once you decide to date further and build that bond between both of you even stronger, don’t keep the expectations way too high. You should be pragmatic and should understand that having those impossible expectations can completely ruin your relationship and does nothing well.
Just be yourself and do not by any chance pretend to be someone you’re not.
5. Not feeling the emotions
It surely takes time to feel each other. One cannot ever understand one another instantly. What you need to do it give it time and make a strong bonding.
6. Getting physical
It’s highly recommended that you do not get too physical in the first few dates itself. Make a bond, a genuine one at that, first and then take things to the next level. Getting physical in the early dates itself can make you come out as a pervert or just an unpleasant personality.
7. Being dominating or very controlling
This one is for both you guys and girls, do not try to control all the things your partner does when they are around you. If they are holding their chopsticks in a certain way which you do not approve of, don’t get too impulsive about correcting them. It’s impolite.