When we talk about escalation it means to take it one notch higher with a girl even it means to ask for her number moving from an occasional ‘Hi’. Sometimes getting rejected from a girl can do such a damage to your confidence that next time when you try to approach a girl, lack of confidence is clearly visible which add to the chances of getting rejected again. Don’t worry If you keep below 6 points in your mind, Chance are either you will get a positive response or it will not look like a rejection.
In case if you know the girl, always try to know her interest level indirectly before asking her out. If you still get a vibe that she is not comfortable with you, wait for some more time to raise her comfort level.
Sometime chances are that there is some genuine reason for a negative response. Try to understand that. If you ask her out and the answer is “I have got some work”. Chances are that she is really busy and if you would have chosen another day, the answer could have been totally different. The idea here is to make sure that she should be available as well as comfortable.
Confidence will take you places. Just accept that gracefully don’t sound like a creep and move away with a smile. This will create a good image of you in her mind and who knows she is the one who is asking out to you next time.
As a human being our emotions change with every changing moment. Just learn how to ride the emotional wave of a girl and go for it when you find the exact moment. That is the reason behind why it is difficult for so many guys to get there first kiss.